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How To Help Your Puppy Sleep Through The Night: Positive Training Tips For Peaceful Nights

9/29/2026

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By Norma Jeanne Laurette
Two Golden Retriever puppies sleeping peacefully together

Introduction


Bringing a new puppy home is exciting, but those first few nights can also be exhausting, particularly when your puppy is waking every few hours, crying or having accidents. If that sounds familiar, you're not alone. Your puppy has just left its mother and littermates, and entered a completely new world where everything is different, which can be frightening and stressful. Young puppies also have small bladders and little bladder control, and they have yet to develop the ability to sooth themselves and settle independently. However, with patience, compassion and consistency, your puppy will become more comfortable in its new home, develop bladder control and learn to sleep for longer stretches until everyone is enjoying a peaceful night's sleep.

How Much Sleep Does A Puppy Need?


During early development, puppies require a lot more sleep than adult dogs and can sleep 18 to 20 hours a day. But this doesn't mean they can immediately sleep through the night in fact, there is almost always an adjustment period. Throughout the process, we need to have fair and realistic expectations, knowing that their bladder control and ability to settle will improve over time.
 
Some puppies begin sleeping through the night right away, while most require time to adjust. Some young puppies can hold their bladder throughout the night because, much like humans, their bodies enter a deeper state of rest and physiological “shutdown” during sleep. Reduced activity, slower metabolism and less fluid processing mean urine production slows down significantly. This natural night time effect can override the common guideline that a puppy can typically hold its bladder only for about as many hours as its age in months plus one.

Although puppies need opportunities to take undisturbed naps throughout the day, I've had clients who tried to make their puppies sleep most of the day. Puppies will rest when they need to, so not only is this unnecessary, forcing a puppy to settle when it’s full of energy can cause frustration, stress and anxiety leading to emotional and behavioural problems. Instead, provide a comfortable area your puppy can retreat to when it so chooses. For more information about stress and anxiety see my article Stress & Anxiety In Dogs: How To Cure Stress & Anxiety And Protect Your Dog’s Emotional Wellbeing.

How Long Can A Puppy Hold Its Bladder


Although it varies from puppy to puppy, a general guideline is that a puppy should be able to hold its bladder for approximately its age in months plus one hour (R1) (R2). For example, a two-month-old puppy should be able to hold its bladder for approximately three hours, a three-month-old puppy for four hours and a four-month-old puppy – five hours. Also keep in mind that it’s difficult for a stressed puppy to hold its bladder at all and impossible for a puppy with a urinary tract infection. For more information about housebreaking see my article Potty Training A Puppy: The Ultimate Step-By-Step Guide.

Establish A Consistent Bedtime Routine


Because dogs thrive on predictability, establishing reasonably consistent mealtimes, exercise, training, play and bed time routines can help your puppy adjust to its new home. Start by meeting all of your dog’s needs throughout the day including healthy meals, training, exercise, mental stimulation and naps whenever your puppy chooses them. For information about a healthy diet for your puppy, see my articles Dog Nutrition Guide: Essential For Your Dog’s Health & Longevity and Dog Nutrition Guide: A Complete Raw Dog Food Diet.
 
Evenings should gradually transition from high-energy toward quieter, more relaxing activities (R2) (R3). Early in the evening you can provide a short walk, positive training session, enrichment activity or game to help your puppy burn off excess energy without becoming over-stimulated. As bedtime gets closer, avoid exciting games and spend the final part of the evening being calm together, such as a slow, leisurely sniff walk or quiet cuddle time, followed by one last elimination opportunity right before bed. Over time, these familiar patterns help your puppy understand what to expect and recognize when the day is winding down. For a list of 50 enrichment activities see my article Canine Enrichment: Best Ideas For Mental Stimulation & Boredom Prevention.

Comfortable Sleeping Environment


Your puppy's sleeping environment can make a big difference in how easily it settles at night. Although many people assume that puppies should sleep in a crate, this is only one option. While some puppies settle comfortably in a crate, others become distressed when confined to a small space. An exercise pen is an excellent alternative because it provides additional room for your puppy to move around, stretch out and change sleeping positions, while also allowing space for a designated elimination area if that’s your choice.
 
Regardless of which option you choose, placing your puppy's sleeping area beside your bed can help it feel more comfortable and sleep peacefully. Remember that your puppy has spent its entire life surrounded by its mother and littermates, so suddenly expecting it to sleep alone in an unfamiliar environment can be frightening. Being able to hear and smell you nearby can provide reassurance while your puppy adjusts to its new surroundings (R3) (R4).
 
Provide comfortable, washable bedding and a couple appropriate, safe chew toys. If your puppy chews or destroys its bedding or toys, remove anything that could create an ingestion hazard. Crates and exercise pens should always be introduced in a positive manner during the day first, instead of expecting your puppy to accept confinement for the first time at bedtime, and it should never be used for punishment. For more information about positive crate training see my article Crate Training A Puppy & Why A Crate Is Only One Option.

Snuggle Puppy


I know many puppy imprinters who swear by the Snuggle Puppy, a soft stuffed toy designed to provide comfort to young puppies adjusting to life away from their mother and littermates. Some versions include a simulated heartbeat and warming pack to remind the puppy of sleeping beside its mother and littermates. Although every puppy is different, many find these toys comforting during their first nights in a new home. As with any toy, remove it if your puppy attempts to destroy or ingest any part of it.

Can Your Puppy Sleep In Your Bed?


Many people have strong opinions about this question but mine is that this is always a personal choice. Our dogs are welcome to sleep on our bed whenever they choose, and our puppies are allowed to join us from the day they come home. Not only does this speed up the bonding process, the puppy is more likely to sleep longer because it feels safe. We put little bells on their collars so we can hear them moving during the night and take them outside when necessary. After decades of raising numerous puppies, this arrangement has worked well for us and there has never been an accident on the bed.
 
Another option to taking your pup out in the middle of the night is putting a tarp with newspaper or pee pads beside your bed. When your puppy wakes up and you hear the bell, place your puppy on the newspaper or pee pads to eliminate then bring it back into the bed.
 
This may not be the right choice for everyone as sleeping arrangements should always take both yours and your puppy's individual needs into consideration. The most important question is where you want the adult dog to sleep long term.
It’s better to start with the sleeping arrangement that works best for your family instead of causing stress for your dog by changing it later.

What Should You Do When Your Puppy Cries At Night?


When your puppy cries during the night, begin by figuring out why it's crying instead of automatically assuming it wants attention. If several hours have passed since its last bathroom break, assume it may need to eliminate and either put it on the newspaper beside your bed or calmly and quietly take it outside. Once your puppy eliminates, quietly praise it then return to bed (R1) (R5).
 
Because I don’t believe in allowing a puppy to cry itself to sleep, as it can harm its emotional wellbeing, I never ignore a puppy that’s become increasingly distressed. If your puppy has recently eliminated but continues to cry, it helps to understand why. Is it stressed, frightened, uncomfortable, hot, cold, not feeling well or simply having trouble settling into its new surroundings without its mother and littermates? Young puppies are learning to feel safe in their new home, and some require more reassurance than others. If your puppy is sleeping in a crate or exercise pen beside your bed, you can place your fingers through the bars to provide comforting contact, while speaking softly to it, then gradually withdrawing your attention as it begins to relax.
 
If your puppy still continues to cry, reassess the situation. It could need another bathroom break, especially if it’s stressed, or it could need a more comfortable sleeping environment or additional reassurance while it adjusts. For more information about empathy verses rules see my article Where Rules Meet Compassion: Balancing Structure & Empathy In Dog Training.

Frequent waking can occasionally have a medical cause. If it’s accompanied by unusually frequent urination, straining, discomfort, blood in the urine, foul-smelling urine, or any other signs of possible illness, contact your veterinarian.

Additional Tips


Don’t overdo the exercise and mental stimulation during the day in hopes that the puppy will sleep longer at night. An overtired or over-stimulated puppy can become cranky and have a difficult time settling. During the night, maintain a quiet, dimly lit, comfortable sleeping space and minimize unnecessary noise and movement as much as possible while your puppy is adjusting. Some puppies find gentle background noise such as a fan soothing, particularly when they're becoming accustomed to sleeping away from their littermates. Most importantly, be patient while your puppy develops bladder control, becomes familiar with its new routine and learns that its new home is a safe place to sleep. If sleeping difficulties persist in spite of appropriate management, consult your veterinarian to rule out possible medical causes, and a qualified positive behaviour expert to help adjust your program to ensure success.

Summary


Teaching your puppy to sleep through the night is a gradual process that involves understanding your puppy's developmental needs, establishing predictable routines and creating a safe, comfortable environment where it can learn to relax. With patience, consistency and positive training, those interrupted nights will soon become less frequent and eventually, a distant memory. In the meantime, remember that your puppy is only little for a very short time, so even during those sleepy early mornings, try to enjoy those precious moments together!

References


(R1) Chewy. How To Get a Puppy To Sleep Through the Night.
(R2) ManyPets. How to Help Your Puppy Sleep Through the Night.
(R3) Whole Dog Journal. How to Get a Puppy to Sleep Through the Night.
(R4) Rover. How To Crate Train a Puppy at Night.
(R5) Preventive Vet. How to Help Your Puppy Sleep Through the Night.

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How To Crate Train A Puppy: Positive Crate Training & Alternatives

9/17/2026

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By Norma Jeanne Laurette
Cocker Spaniel puppies sleeping peacefully in an exercise pen during positive crate and confinement training.

Introduction


Bringing a new puppy home involves making a lot of decisions. Where will the puppy sleep? What happens when you need to leave the house? How will you prevent chewing and accidents when you can't supervise? For many guardians, a crate is part of the answer.
 
A crate can be a useful tool for housebreaking, travel, veterinary visits, preventing destructive behaviour and providing a quiet place for a puppy to rest. When introduced gradually and positively, many puppies become comfortable using one, but there's something I think every puppy guardian should know R1) (R2). You do not have to crate your puppy to raise a well-trained dog. Some puppies love crates, while others are much happier in an exercise pen, puppy-proofed room or gated section of the house. The best choice is the one that keeps your puppy safe while also protecting its need for mental stimulation and emotional wellbeing.

Never Force A Puppy To "Get Used To It"


A puppy in its new home has just experienced an enormous change. It left its mother and littermates to move to an unfamiliar environment, and finds itself surrounded by new people, sights, sounds, smells and possibly other animals. Now imagine how the puppy feels when it suddenly finds itself isolated in a crate with no one around. Although some puppies adjust surprisingly well, many don't. Some will whine, bark, frantically scratch at the door, pant, drool and attempt to escape. This is not a puppy being stubborn or disobedient, it’s a puppy panicking due to emotional distress (R2) (R3).
 
Positive puppy training focuses on understanding what the puppy is experiencing and adjusting your training plan to meet its emotional needs instead of forcing it to endure upsetting experiences. Humane training focuses on setting the puppy up for success while eliminating unnecessary suffering (R1). For more information about positive training see my article Positive Dog Training: The Science, Ethics & Proven Results.

A Crate’s Purpose


Puppies explore their world with their mouths the way children use their hands. Electrical cords, shoes, furniture, children’s toys – in fact, anything within reach can become a chew toy for a curious puppy. When you can’t supervise your puppy, a crate can help prevent it from chewing something dangerous or practising unwanted behaviours. When introduced and used properly, a crate can provide a comfortable, secure place to sleep, relax and enjoy appropriate chew items (R4) (R7).
 
A crate can also be helpful during house training. Because most puppies naturally avoid soiling their sleeping area, crating for short periods of time can help prevent accidents in the house while the puppy learns where to eliminate.
 
A crate should only be used as a management tool and never as a copout to replace our responsibilities. It should never become a substitute for supervision, training, exercise, enrichment, socialization and interaction with the family, and it should never be used too long in one session or for the life of the dog.

A Positive Introduction To The Crate


Never force the puppy into the crate. Start with the door open and let your puppy investigate without any pressure. Toss treats around the entrance and then inside and feed meals in the crate. Put comfortable bedding inside (if your puppy won't chew it), and provide safe toys and something enjoyable to chew on. Once your puppy is happily entering on its own, begin closing the door for very short periods of time and open it again before the puppy becomes distressed. Gradually increase the length of time the door remains closed, while always letting it out before it gets upset. This method combines desensitization with counter-conditioning, which means exposure is introduced gradually while the puppy develops a positive emotional association with the experience. Remember to always let your puppy set the pace (R2) (R3).

Identifying Distress


There's a difference between a puppy complaining because it would rather be with you or out playing and one experiencing significant fear or anxiety.
 
Behaviours that indicate a distressed puppy are:

  • Frantic escape attempts
  • Excessive panting
  • Drooling
  • Distress vocalization (barking or whining)
  • Refusing food or an enjoyable chew while in the crate
  • Diarrhea
  • Refusing to enter the crate
  • Escalating rather than settling
 
These behaviours need to be acknowledged, and distress should never be ignored in the hope that the puppy will eventually give up. If your puppy is distressed, change your plan (R2) (R3). For more information about stress and anxiety see my article entitled Stress & Anxiety In Dogs: How To Cure Stress & Anxiety While Protecting Your Dog’s Emotional Wellbeing.

Exercise Pens & Puppy Proofed Rooms


​One of my favourite alternatives to a crate is an exercise pen, or X-pen. In fact, I use them in my school when a puppy in class needs space from the other puppies. Exercise pens come in a variety of sizes and consist of eight connected panels that can be arranged in different shapes and configurations to suit the available space. They also fold flat, making them convenient to store when not in use. An exercise pen gives a puppy room to stand, stretch, change sleeping positions, play and chew while preventing unrestricted access to the house. Exercise pens are commonly used for positive puppy management and early training (R4).
 
I learned just how valuable this option could be with my own puppy, Tala. When I initially confined him to a small comfortable space with his favourite chews, he panicked – crying and trying to escape. Rather than forcing him “get used to it,” I changed my setup. Using an exercise pen, I blocked off a larger, puppy proofed area using my kitchen and hallway, and provided him with his bed, toys, a bully stick and frozen stuffed kong to chew on. He settled immediately proving that in his case, he just needed more space.
​Some puppies can be safely left in a puppy-proofed kitchen, laundry room, hallway or other gated area. Puppy proofing involves remove electrical cords, plants, medications, garbage, cleaning products, absolutely everything the puppy could possibly chew or swallow. If these objects are under a counter in the puppy’s enclosed area, child-proof safety locks for cabinets can be used to prevent access. You can use exercise pens not only to block the exit but also to protect cabinetry, walls or furniture if necessary. The idea is simple, instead of waiting for the puppy to make a mistake, control the environment so the only options are correct choices.

Do I Need A Crate To Housebreak My Puppy?


No. A crate can certainly be helpful, but successful housebreaking depends more on supervision to prevent accidents, taking the puppy outside frequently, teaching it to tell you when it needs to go out and rewarding elimination in the appropriate location. Confining your puppy or leaving it outside for long periods of time without a housebreaking program will not be successful. Puppies learns through repetition and good habits are just as hard to break as bad ones.
 
An exercise pen or blocked off area can work well during housebreaking, particularly for very young puppies that are still developing bladder control. Newspapers or pee pads can be used temporarily in these spaces to prevent accidents on the floor. As reliability improves, the newspapers or pee pads gradually disappear, while over time, the puppy earns more freedom (R1) (R4). For more information about house training your puppy see my article Potty Training A Puppy – The Ultimate Step-By-Step Guide.

How Long Should A Young Puppy Be Left Alone?


Puppies need to learn some independence however, they’re social animals and should not routinely spend long periods of time isolated or confined. Using desensitization and counter conditioning, I gradually teach my puppies to feel comfortable on their own. For any dog that’s confined, I use approximately four hours as my upper limit, but only after they’ve become comfortable being confined for that length of time. If you need to be away longer, having a trusted friend, family member or professional take your puppy outside to eliminate and play with it or take it for a walk, can help prevent accidents in the crate as well as pent up stress and anxiety. As your puppy matures, becomes reliably house trained and no longer chews inappropriate objects, it can gradually be given more freedom in the home until it eventually earns access to most of the house.

Crying At Night


So far, your puppy has spent its entire life sleeping beside its mother and littermates, meaning that suddenly sleeping alone in a strange house can be  very upsetting. Keeping your puppy's crate, pen or sleeping area near your bed can make the transition much easier. Some puppies sleep through the night almost immediately, while others need night time bathroom breaks. If your puppy wakes up and needs to eliminate, keep the trip quiet and uneventful. Take the puppy outside, calmly reward successful elimination and go back to bed. As bladder control strengthens, night time trips usually become less frequent. For more information about sleeping through the night see my article entitled How To Teach A Puppy To Sleep Through The Night: Proven Tips For Restful Sleep.

Can My Puppy Sleep In My Bed?


A more important question to ask is what you want long term. Dogs learn patterns and routines and changing them can cause stress and anxiety, which can lead to behaviour problems and compromise emotional wellbeing. Because of this, it's better to establish the sleeping arrangement you want for the rest of your dog’s life from the onset, instead of introducing a routine and changing it later (R3) (R6). Although many have strong opinions about this, my opinion is that it’s always a personal choice. Our dogs are allowed to sleep in our bed if they so choose, so our puppies are on the bed from the day they come home. To set us up for success we put little bells on their collars so if they wake up we can take them out to prevent accidents on the bed, and after decades of raising many puppies, we’ve never had one.

Summary


One of the most important things I've learned after all these years is that every puppy is unique and one cookie cutter solution does not fit all. A crate should provide safety and management and not become a place where a frightened puppy is expected to endure distress. Our ultimate goal isn't to raise a dog that can live in a crate, it's to raise a confident, independent and well-behaved dog that eventually doesn't need one.

References


(R1) American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior (AVSAB). Humane Dog Training Position Statement.
(R2) Yin, S. (2009). Low Stress Handling, Restraint and Behavior Modification of Dogs & Cats. CattleDog Publishing.
(R3) Overall, K. L. (2013). Manual of Clinical Behavioral Medicine for Dogs and Cats. Elsevier.
(R4) Dunbar, I. (2003). Before & After Getting Your Puppy: The Positive Approach to Raising a Happy, Healthy, Well-Behaved Dog. New World Library.
(R5) Herron, M. E., Shofer, F. S., & Reisner, I. R. (2009). Survey of the use and outcome of confrontational and non-confrontational training methods in client-owned dogs showing undesirable behaviors. Applied Animal Behaviour Science, 117(1–2), 47–54.
(R6) Bradshaw, J. (2011). Dog Sense: How the New Science of Dog Behavior Can Make You a Better Friend to Your Pet. Basic Books.
(R7) VCA Animal Hospitals. Crate Training Your Puppy.

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Housebreaking Your Puppy: A Positive Step-By-Step Guide

9/5/2026

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By Norma Jeanne Laurette
Four dogs outdoors in the snow during positive puppy house training
Potty training is one of the first and most important lessons your puppy will learn. Puppies don't instinctively know where you want them to eliminate, so successful housebreaking depends on patience, consistency, supervision and positive reinforcement. The goal is to build good habits from the very beginning. For more information about positive training see my article Positive Dog Training: The Science, Ethics & Proven Results. 
 
Instead of punishing accidents, focus on preventing them and rewarding your puppy every time it eliminates in the correct place. Every successful trip outside strengthens the habit you want, while punishment only creates fear, damages trust and often causes puppies to hide when they need to eliminate. For more information about the consequences of punishment see our first book Blueprint To A Happy Dog. 
 
One of the keys to success is taking your puppy outside frequently. Puppies should be taken out first thing in the morning, before bedtime, after eating or drinking, after naps, after play sessions, after leaving their crate or confinement area, and whenever they begin sniffing, circling or showing signs they need to go. In the early stages, taking your puppy out every 15 minutes while awake helps prevent accidents before they happen.
 
Each potty break should follow the same routine. Use a leash, take your puppy to the same elimination area every time, and use a consistent cue such as "Outside." When your puppy finishes eliminating, calmly praise it while it's going, then immediately reward it with treats, play and affection once it has finished. If your puppy doesn't eliminate, return inside for a few minutes while maintaining supervision before trying again.
 
Teaching your puppy to ring a bell at the door is another helpful communication tool. By gently encouraging your puppy to touch the bell before every trip outside, many puppies quickly learn to ring it on their own when they need to go out.

​Close supervision is essential throughout the housebreaking process. Until your puppy is completely reliable, it should always be within sight when loose in the house. 
​Close supervision is essential throughout the housebreaking process. Until your puppy is completely reliable, it should always be within sight when loose in the house. When supervision isn't possible, use an appropriately sized crate or a safe exercise pen. Some puppies adapt well to crate training, while others are more comfortable with passive paper training in a larger puppy-proofed area. Choose the method that best suits your individual puppy. For more information about crate training see my article How To Crate Train A Puppy & Why A Crate Is Only One Option. 
 
If you catch your puppy having an accident, calmly interrupt with your outside cue and immediately take it outdoors. Never punish accidents. Punishment creates stress, anxiety and fear while making house training more difficult. If accidents continue or return after your puppy has been successful, consult your veterinarian to rule out medical conditions such as urinary tract infections or other health problems before assuming it is strictly a training issue.
 
A few simple management techniques can also make housebreaking easier. Feed regular meals rather than leaving food available all day, offer water on a schedule, avoid food and water shortly before bedtime, provide appropriate chew toys and enrichment, and keep a record of accident-free days. Tracking progress makes it easier to gradually increase the time between bathroom breaks as your puppy becomes more reliable. For 50 canine enrichment options see my article entitled Canine Enrichment: Best Options For Mental Stimulation & Boredom Prevention. 
 
Every puppy learns at a different pace. Some are house trained within a few weeks, while others require several months. Consistency, patience and positive reinforcement are the keys to long-term success.
 
References 

(R1) Dunbar, Dr. Ian. Housetraining. James & Kenneth Publishers, 1986.
(R2) Dunbar, Dr. Ian. Housetraining Supplement. James & Kenneth Publishers, 1986.
(R3) International Animal Studies Behavior Course, 1994.
(R4) Pryor, Karen. clickertraining.com/node/289.

 
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Robots, Dogs & The Future Of Dog Training

9/5/2026

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By Norma Jeanne Laurette
Robot interacting with a dog representing the future of dog training

Introduction


​Artificial intelligence and robotics are developing rapidly. Technologies that once seemed like science fiction are beginning to appear in hospitals, businesses, public spaces and homes. Humanoid robots are being developed to assist us and carry out work that's repetitive, dangerous or physically demanding. As robots become more capable and affordable, they will eventually become part of everyday life for many families. But what will that mean for our dogs? A robot will eventually be able to fill a food bowl, feed our dogs treats, open doors, monitor our dogs while we're away, provide entertainment and even take them for walks. But while these eventualities may be convenient, we need to remember that many of the things we do for our dogs are much more important than chores, they are opportunities to build our relationships.

Dogs Need More Than Care


​​Dogs need food, water, shelter and exercise, but their emotional and social needs are just as important. A walk is not only a way to exercise a dog, it's an opportunity to explore the world together. Training is not just a way to teach cues and signals, it's communication. Playing together, grooming, cuddling, training and spending time together all contribute to the relationship between dogs and their people. These everyday interactions build trust, confidence, security and a stronger human/canine bond, at least they do when benevolent leadership and positive training are involved. This is why we should ask an important question whenever we choose to let technology perform a task for us. Just because a robot can do something for us, should it? Automating a repetitive household chore may give us more free time, however, automating the experiences that build our relationships with our dogs could have very different consequences. For more information about meeting your dogs needs see my article Emotional Fulfilment For Dogs: How To Keep Your Dog Happy & Emotionally Balanced. 

Technology Can Be Helpful


​​This doesn’t mean technology has to be bad for our dogs, quite the opposite. New technology can provide useful tools for responsible dog guardianship. Cameras can allow us to monitor our dogs when we're away, smart collars can provide information about activity and location, automated feeders will be convenient and interactive devices can provide enrichment when used responsibly. Technology can also help us recognize changes in behaviour that require our attention. The important difference is that technology should support responsible guardianship, not replace the relationship itself. A camera can let us know our dog is pacing but it can't replace the comfort, companionship and understanding we provide when we are with our dog.

What Happens When Dogs Meet Robots? ​


​There's another issue that deserves our attention, and that's how dogs will react to robots? A robot doesn’t move, sound, behave or smell like a person. Some glide quietly across the floor, quickly change direction, emit mechanical sounds, flash lights or perform movements that are unfamiliar to our dogs. A dog that's never encountered a robot could find the experience fascinating, confusing or frightening depending on the dog. Some dogs might investigate, while many are likely to bark, growl, hide, attempt to escape or even bite or attack the robot. This is especially important for dogs that are already fearful with new people, objects, sounds or movements. Instead of just bringing a robot into the home and expecting a dog to get used to it, guardians will need to introduce this unfamiliar technology gradually and carefully. For more information about socialization see my article entitled How To Socialize A Puppy Or Dog: The Key To Successful Dog Training & Behaviour Development. ​

Preparing Dogs Through Desensitization


​Desensitization means introducing something gradually, at an intensity that does not cause a fear response. Your goal is to prevent overwhelming your dog. For example, your dog could first see a robot from a distance while it remains completely still. Once your dog is relaxed, one at a time, you can gradually introduce small changes such as movement, sounds or lights. Your dog should remain below threshold at all times, which is the point at which fear or reactivity begins. If your dog becomes frightened, you've increased the criteria too quickly.​​ 

​Changing The Emotional Response


Counter-conditioning is usually used in tandem with desensitization. Instead of just teaching your dog to tolerate a robot, you can help it develop a positive emotional association with it. The appearance, movement, sights and sounds of the robot can be paired with something your dog likes, such as favourite treats, play or other rewarding experiences. With repetition and carefully managed exposure, the robot will begin to predict good things  instead of something frightening. These principles are scientifically proven in positive behaviour modification and will become increasingly useful as unfamiliar technologies enter our homes and communities. For more information about desensitization and counter conditioning see our first book Blueprint To A Happy Dog.

Positive Training Has A Role In Robotics Too


​Researchers developing robots have begun using learning principles used in positive dog training, including reward-based learning, shaping, targeting and other training techniques that motivate and reward desired behaviours. In other words, techniques developed through the study of animal training are now helping researchers teach robots. For more information about positive training see my article Positive Dog Training: The Science, Ethics & Proven Results. 

Don’t Let Convenience Replace Connection


​​​The biggest concern isn’t that robots will become a normal part of our lives, it's that convenience could gradually replace interaction. If a robot feeds our dogs, plays with them, let's them in and out, entertains them and takes them for walks, we could unintentionally give up many of the daily experiences that strengthen the human/canine bond. Technology might save time however, some moments should never be replaced because they're necessary to maintain our relationships with our dogs.

Our Dogs Still Need Us


​​No matter how sophisticated artificial intelligence becomes, a robot cannot replace the relationship between a dog and the person who loves it. It can't experience the satisfaction of teaching new behaviour through positive training. It can't replace human touch or the comfort of a person the dog trusts when it's frightened. It can't share the excitement of exploring a new trail, playing a favourite game or relaxing together after a long day. Technology should make responsible dog guardianship easier when it's appropriate to do so, but it should never become an excuse to be less involved in our dogs’ lives. For more information about meeting our dogs needs see my article entitled Emotional Fulfilment For Dogs: How To Keep Your Dog Happy & Emotionally Balanced.

Preparing For The Future

​Robots will eventually become as ordinary as smartphones and other technologies that were once considered futuristic. We don’t need to fear that future, but we should enter it with our eyes wide open. We can use technology to assist us, to monitor our dogs, enrich their lives and improve safety, but we should only use it when it benefits our dogs overall wellbeing. We need to continue our walks, training sessions, games, grooming, cuddle time and quiet moments together because they are necessary to creating and nurturing our bond. Our dogs don’t need us to be technologically advanced, they need us to be present.

​Summary


​Artificial intelligence and robotics will dramatically change the way we live, but they should never change our relationships with our dogs. Technology will be able to perform useful tasks however, the relationship between us and our dogs is built through shared experiences, communication, trust and affection.

The future doesn’t have to be a choice between technology and our dogs, we can have both, as long as our priority remains on ensuring that we only use technology to allow us more time with those we love, including our dogs.

References


​(R1) Tesla. 2024. 2024 Annual Shareholder Meeting. Information concerning Elon Musk’s predictions regarding Optimus humanoid robots.
(R2) Hare, B., & Tomasello, M. (2005). Human-like social skills in dogs? Trends in Cognitive Sciences, 9(9), 439–444.
(R3) American Pet Products Association. 2025. 2025–2026 APPA National Pet Guardians Survey and related veterinary expenditure data.
(R4) Ogmen Robotics. ORo Companion Robot product information.
(R5) American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior (AVSAB). (2021). Humane Dog Training Position Statement.
Overall, K. L. (2013). Manual of Clinical Behavioral Medicine for Dogs and Cats. Elsevier.
(R6) Abdelghani, M., et al. (2024). Research concerning the adaptation of reward-based dog-training techniques for teaching quadruped robots.
(R7) Leng, M., et al. (2019). Use of robotic pets in dementia care: A systematic review.
Abbott, R., et al. (2019). The therapeutic effects of human-animal interaction compared with robotic animal interaction: A systematic review.
(R8) Nagasawa, M., Mitsui, S., En, S., et al. (2015). Oxytocin-gaze positive loop and the coevolution of human-dog bonds. Science, 348(6232), 333–336.
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